Category Archives: Friend

“Ways to Support a Grieving Dad”

I was recently asked to write a short article on ways to support a grieving dad and thought I would share the article here on this blog. Positive Ways to Support a Grieving Dad I often hear from grieving dads … Continue reading

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“Give Yourself Permission” – Truisms About Grief

I have been posting a series of “Truisms About Grief” that I received from fellow grieving dad and friend, Charlie Schmidtke.  I met Charlie as part of this grieving dads project.  Please share your thoughts or stories regarding this subject. Grieving is a time to give … Continue reading

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“I Will Not Abandon You”

I received the following from Michael Mayette who is a friend of a grieving dad.  He wanted me to share his perspective as someone that has supported his friend.  I found it powerful to read his words and feel the compassion … Continue reading

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Billy Donovan’s Secret Sorrow | ThePostGame

Billy Donovan’s Secret Sorrow | ThePostGame. The link above is a well written story about three grieving dads that have formed a bond.  This is a story about three coaches that compete against each other in their professional life but … Continue reading

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“A Gift from Another Father”

Like most men I know, I was raised to be “strong,” and when things became difficult, you either dealt with it on your own, headed to the bar or a combination of both. I subscribed to this way of thinking … Continue reading

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“I Will Not Compare” – Just for Today

“Just for Today” for Bereaved Parents – (Section Eight) Just for today I will not compare myself with others. I am fortunate to be who I am and have had my child for as long as I did. I must … Continue reading

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Live Like You Were Dying

Live Like You Were Dying The  other night Tim McGraw’s 2004 hit song, “Live Like You Were Dying” was playing on the radio.  The song tells the story of a man in his forties who learns that he is dying … Continue reading

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My Friend Time

My Friend Time by Jim Santucci This weekend marks the 104th week since my daughter Jillian left this world.  As I calculated in my journal, over 1 million minutes of time have elapsed.  But it still seems like it was just … Continue reading

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